tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8151539311782537354.post4435878344312356234..comments2019-12-31T14:16:28.932-08:00Comments on Survivor Moms Speak Out: Holly’s StoryMickey Sperlichhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01770037656202616743noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8151539311782537354.post-37935948569600332072012-05-21T12:12:19.937-07:002012-05-21T12:12:19.937-07:00I just saw that you did confront her that's ve...I just saw that you did confront her that's very good.rhonda moorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01236507720945992072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8151539311782537354.post-65131628124728828912012-05-21T12:07:56.464-07:002012-05-21T12:07:56.464-07:00A good midwife is hard to find. That woman had no ...A good midwife is hard to find. That woman had no right to say that to you and put that pressure on you. You should confront her and tell her how damaging this was to you.<br /><br />I had a horrible midwife myself. She sexually violated me during my labor. When my husband asked her what she was doing she lied and said I was just working hard. She continued to violate me throughout my labor. <br /><br />When I confronted her about it she said she must have gotten caught in a web from my past sexual abuse. Then she said she was doing it for my best interest and wasn't trying to be sexual with me all midwives touched there clients that way. <br /><br />During my pushing I said it felt like an orgasm my midwife said you should have one and without asking she started touching my clitoris. I have been traumatized for years over this. I told her ten years later that she was a pervert. She apologized for doing it but blamed it on the fact that she was emotionally unstable at the time. She said she was out to lunch about what she was doing.<br /><br />I really regret not pressing charges against her. So I am hoping to get my story out there so other women who may have experienced this won't feel alone<br /><br /><br />So stand up for yourself don't let her get away with itrhonda moorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01236507720945992072noreply@blogger.com